12 Things I Know Now That I Wish I’d Known Then

My friend Kathy recently emailed asking me what 2 sentences of advice I would give young women graduating from college.  Two?  Only two?  Which two should I choose?  Which two would you offer?

If I could go back and do it all over again, here’s what I wish I’d known:  

  1. Network diversely and religiously.
  2. Be interested to be interesting
  3. Learn beyond your profession – the greatest innovations are born from the collision of two non-related ideas.
  4. Save as if you’ll never have a spouse. 
  5. How you dress really does matter.
  6. Don’t do anything that you wouldn’t want  your grandparents or your grandchildren to find out about.
  7. Remember that no matter how old a person appears, in her mind, she probably stopped aging in her 20s or 30s. 
  8. Explore family history now.  One day, it will be too late to ask all those questions.
  9. Only date people who practice the golden rule.
  10. Life is too short to work at a job you hate.
  11. Travel well and far – it will change your life.
  12. Start writing on the pages of history now to create the legacy you want to leave behind.

And a few I didn’t need to know but that I want my daughters to know:

  1. “Too many accessories” shouldn’t include the tattoos on your skin.
  2. Be cautious what you put online….What happens in cyberspace stays in cyberspace.

What advice would you add?

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